The Reason Dating Hasn't Worked For You (Yet)

Workshop

A deep-dive workshop for growth-minded, self-aware daters

This interactive workshop is designed to help you understand what’s really been happening beneath the surface of your dating experiences - without blame, shame, or pressure to “fix” yourself.

This is not a surface-level dating talk.
And it’s not about quick tips or hacks.

It’s about insight - the kind that actually changes things.

You can’t create a new dating experience while the same patterns are still running the show.

If you’re self-aware, reflective, and have done some inner work already - yet dating still feels frustrating or repetitive - there’s a reason for that.

It’s rarely because you’re “doing dating wrong.”

More often, it’s because unconscious dating patterns are quietly influencing who you’re drawn to, how you attach, and what you tolerate… even when you know better.

These patterns are subtle. Protective. Familiar.


And until they’re brought into awareness, they tend to repeat themselves.

Maybe you’ve noticed this happening:

✔️ You feel drawn to people who are emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or hard to reach
✔️ You over-give, over-explain, or invest early to create security
✔️ You confuse chemistry with compatibility - and only realise later
✔️ You abandon your own needs to keep the connection going
✔️ You tell yourself “I should know better by now” - but it keeps happening

If any of this resonates, you’re not broken - and you’re definitely not alone.

It simply means a pattern is at play.

And patterns don’t disappear through willpower or logic alone.

They shift through understanding them, having self-compassion, and making conscious change.

💕 Workshop Details💕

Date: Wednesday 21st January, 7pm GMT

Investment: £10
Where: Online - Zoom

Replay will be available for ticket holders

What we’ll cover:

💫 The most common dating patterns that keep people stuck even when they’re self-aware

💫 Why awareness alone hasn’t been enough to create lasting change

💫  Where these patterns often come from, and what they’re protecting you from

💫  How your past experiences subtly shape your choices, attraction, and boundaries

💫  What actually needs to shift for dating to feel calmer, clearer, and more intentional

This space will include:

~Teaching and explanation

~Guided self-reflection

~Optional live hot-seat coaching (no pressure to share)

You’re welcome to participate quietly or actively - this is a contained, respectful space.

You’ll leave the workshop with:

💗 A clearer understanding of your own dating patterns

💗 Language for what’s been happening - and why

💗 Compassion for yourself instead of self-judgement

💗 Clarity on what needs to change (and what doesn’t)

💗 A grounded sense of direction for your next steps in dating

This workshop won’t promise to transform everything overnight.

What it will do is give you insight - and insight is where real change begins.

This workshop is for you if:

✔️ You value personal growth and self-reflection
✔️ You’re open to looking inward, not just outward
✔️ You want to date more intentionally - not reactively
✔️ You’re ready to stop repeating the same emotional dynamics

This isn’t about rushing into another relationship.


It’s about understanding yourself more deeply - so you stop repeating what hasn’t worked and start creating something more aligned.

If you’re ready to approach dating with clarity, self-trust, and intention, you’re warmly invited to join us.

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Your workshop host...

Hi, I'm Topé (pronounced Top-Air) ...

...a certified dating coach, divorced mum, and the creator of the Dream Partner Formula™, which helps smart, self-aware singles like you attract, find and choose the right partner - without second-guessing yourself, wasting time on dead-end dates, or settling for situationships.

After my divorce nearly 20 years ago, I spent way too long in relationships that didn’t go anywhere - hoping men would commit, doubting myself, and wondering what I was doing wrong.

Once I finally uncovered the real reason I kept attracting the wrong men (and made the shifts I now teach), everything changed.

✨ I stopped chasing chemistry and started choosing compatibility
✨ I built confidence and clarity around what I truly wanted
✨ And I finally met my lovely partner online (yep, online!)

It took me 17 years to figure it out.
It doesn’t need to take you that long.

In this workshop I’ll help you to figure out what's in the way of you attracting your dream partner, and what to do instead - so your next chapter in love is aligned, intentional, and actually enjoyable. 💞