Meet Better Matches

& Know Who to Choose

Guide

Tired of meeting people… but nothing ever turns into something real?

If you’ve been dating for a while, you’ve probably started to notice a pattern…

❤️‍🩹 you're not meeting the kind of people you actually want

❤️‍🩹 you're not sure where to go to find better-suited matches

❤️‍🩹 you’re not sure who’s actually right for you

❤️‍🩹 you keep second-guessing your decisions

❤️‍🩹 you give people time… and it doesn’t lead anywhere

❤️‍🩹 you’re not always spotting red flags early enough

❤️‍🩹 or you just feel a bit lost with how to approach dating

And after a while, it stops feeling like bad luck…and starts feeling like something isn’t quite working.

The truth is, most people don’t struggle because they can’t meet people...

...they struggle because they don’t have a clear way to:

💫 know where to meet people who are right for them

💫 recognise who’s a good fit when they do meet people

💫 filter out the wrong matches early

💫 feel confident in their decisions as they go

So they keep repeating the same cycle…

meeting → hoping → investing → disappointment

And without a clearer approach, this doesn’t usually fix itself.

It just turns into: more time spent on the wrong people...more second-guessing...and more frustration with the whole process

That’s exactly what this guide is here to change.

This simple, practical guide, that you can use straight away, is to help you meet better matches, and feel confident choosing who’s right for you.

So instead of:

❌ overthinking every interaction
❌ getting attached too quickly
❌ wasting time on the wrong people
❌ going to the same places (or apps) and meeting the same kind of matches
❌ feeling unsure where to actually meet someone right for you

You’ll start to feel:

✨ clearer on what you want - and where to find it
✨ more confident choosing who to invest your time in
✨ more intentional about where you’re putting yourself
✨ more in control of your dating (instead of just hoping it works out)
✨ more hopeful, because things finally start to make sense

If you’re ready to date being clear, confident, and with some direction - and actually meet better-suited people and know who to choose - this guide will show you how.

Inside the 30 page-guide you’ll learn how to:

✔ get clear on what actually matters to you
so you can stop giving your time to people who were never right for you in the first place

✔ find specific places to meet better-suited people for you
so you’re not relying on luck, apps, or the same old environments that aren’t working

✔ navigate online dating without burnout or frustration
so you can use it with a clear approach (instead of getting drained or disheartened)

✔ start conversations naturally (without overthinking what to say)
so you can relax, be yourself, and actually enjoy the interaction

✔ screen people early using a simple, grounded approach
so you can tell within a few conversations whether it’s worth continuing or not

✔ recognise red flags and green flags with more certainty
so you don’t ignore warning signs or talk yourself into the wrong situation

✔ recognise and avoid the common dating traps
so you don’t over-invest, second-guess yourself, or repeat the same patterns again

✔ handle common dating situations without losing your confidence
so things like ghosting, or rejection don’t knock you off track

So instead of feeling confused, drained, or stuck… you’ll have a clear way to meet better-suited people - and actually know what to do when you do.

This is for you if:

💌 You’re meeting people… but they’re not quite right

💌 You’re unsure who to invest your time, energy and heart in

💌 You tend to overthink or second-guess your decisions

💌 You’re tired of things going nowhere

By the end, you’ll feel:

✨ clearer on who you’re looking for
✨ more confident starting and navigating conversations
✨ able to recognise who’s right for you (and who isn’t)
✨ less likely to waste time on the wrong connections

Your investment:

£27 £10

(introductory price...)

If you’re ready to stop guessing and start dating with a bit more clarity and confidence, this is a great place to start...it’s simple, practical, and something you can keep coming back to whenever you feel stuck. 🙂

Frequently Asked Questions

Will this help me if I’m not currently meeting anyone?

That’s exactly who this is for.

A big part of the guide focuses on helping you identify where you’re most likely to meet people who are aligned with you - based on your values and lifestyle.

It’s not about meeting more people… it’s about meeting better-suited people.

Can this help with online dating too?

Yes - this covers both online dating, and finding better places to meet people in person, and how to approach both in a way that actually works.

How will this help me choose the right person?

I guide you on how to filter or screen people in or out, so you know whether to keep seeing them, and eventually to decide if they are right for you. This also involves helping you recognise red and green flags as part of the screening approach.

Will this actually work for my situation?

This isn’t a one-size-fits-all formula you have to follow exactly.

It’s designed to help you think more clearly about your own dating life, so you can apply it in a way that works for you, your lifestyle, and what you’re actually looking for. Most people find they can take what’s relevant, apply it to their situation, and start making better decisions quite quickly.

What if I’ve tried lots of dating advice already?

This isn’t about scripts or surface-level tips, it's about helping you develop a clear, personal approach to dating - so you can make better decisions based on what actually works for you.

That’s why it focuses on values, lifestyle, and real-life situations… not just “what to say” or “how to act”.

How quickly will I see results?

That depends on how you apply it - but many people start to notice shifts quite quickly.

Often it’s things like: feeling clearer on what they’re looking for, approaching conversations differently, recognising sooner who isn’t right.

Meeting the right person isn’t something that can be timed exactly - but having a clear approach usually shortens the process a lot.

Is there a lot I will have to DO?

Not in an overwhelming way. It’s a practical guide, so there are things to think about and apply, but you’re not expected to do everything at once.

You can go through it step-by-step, or simply jump to the part that feels most relevant right now.

Most people find that even making a few small shifts (like getting clearer on what they want, or how they’re choosing people) starts to change their experience quite quickly.

The goal isn’t to give you more to do… it’s to help you do the right things, so you stop wasting time and energy.

What if I still feel unsure applying this?

That’s okay - you don’t have to get everything perfect. The guide is something you can come back to as you go, and refine your approach over time.

And if you do want more personalised support, there are options for that too.

You can absolutely keep approaching dating the same way and hope something changes…

...OR you can start doing it differently and see what actually shifts. 💫 

👋🏾 Hi, I’m Tope,

(pronounced TopAir) - dating mentor, online dating survivor (and thriver), and the creator of the Dream Partner Formula™. 

I’ve spent over 2 decades navigating modern dating after my divorce many moons ago, before meeting a lovely and compatible person (and online too!).

As a dating coach, mentor and guide I’m here to help you have some quick wins on your dating journey, as well as deeper shifts for long-lasting impact (should you want it).

I have years of experience helping clients to date intentionally, and find the RIGHT partner for them based on their values, lifestyle and non-negotiables - and that’s what I’m helping you do with this guide.💖

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