✨The Find Your Match Club✨
The Easy, Supportive, and Aligned Way to Meet Your Ideal Partner
Let’s help you meet someone amazing without the drama, dead ends, or doubting yourself every step of the way - whether in person, online or being matched with someone from my matchmaking pool.
Click to watch and enable sound, to get a summary of the Club and an introduction to me 😊
"Dating shouldn’t feel this hard" 😑... So why does it?
Hi love seeker...if you’re here, chances are dating has felt more confusing, draining, or stuck than you expected. 😵💫
Maybe you’re putting the effort in…you’re meeting people, you’re swiping, you’re trying to “stay open,” you’re doing the inner work - all the things - but something still isn’t clicking into place.
Does any of this sound familiar?
👉🏾 You meet people who seem promising, but things fizzle out quickly or don’t go anywhere
👉🏾 You keep matching with people who aren’t aligned...emotionally unavailable, confused, inconsistent, or not looking for what you want
👉🏾 You’re tired of guessing if someone is right for you and wasting weeks (or months) figuring it out
👉🏾 You want clarity - not chaos, not overthinking, not situationships
👉🏾 You’re ready for a real partnership, but you’re not sure how to confidently get from “dating” to “in a healthy relationship”
And deep down you’re thinking… “Why is this harder for me than it seems for other people?” 🤔
And here’s what you’re definitely OVER:
💬 Wasting weeks, months (okay fine - years, like me 🫣) trying to work out if someone’s the right fit when deep down… you already know.
💬 Second-guessing every little thing. “Should I give them more time?” “Am I being too picky?” “Do they even like me?” Ugh. Exhausting.
💬 Feeling like dating is a full-time job with no pay. You want it to feel lighter, more aligned - like you’re actually getting somewhere.
And...
💬 Wasting energy on people who don’t know what they want
💬 Trying harder than the other person
💬 Feeling like you’re starting from zero after every disappointment
💬 Settling because “maybe this is as good as it gets”
💬 Dating that feels uncertain, unclear, or out of your control
💬 Googling questions you wish you had a real person to ask
💬 Hoping intuition kicks in...but mostly feeling confused
I get it.
I’ve been there.
I was falling in and out of relationships for 17 years, before I finally found my dream partner...so I've been through it all. 🙃
And I refuse to let dating feel that heavy for you. I want my long way round to help you shortcut your journey to your dream relationship.
Like me, I know you want a genuine connection.
With someone suited to you.
Someone emotionally mature.
Someone ready for love.
And you want a clear path to get there.
You’re not here to play the guessing game anymore.
You’re here to be clear, confident, and in control of your love life.
💖 What you actually need (and what most singles never get)...
...the truth no one tells you 👀:
Dating isn’t hard because you’re doing it wrong - dating is hard because no one ever taught you how to date intentionally.
No one taught US.
You don’t need more “just trust the universe” advice, you don’t need more random Instagram tips, and you definitely don’t need more time wasting.
You need:
✨ Guidance that tells you what to do next - not just what you did wrong
✨ Tools and checklists that calm your brain and make decisions easier
✨ Support that helps you break your patterns, not repeat them
✨ Practical steps so you actually meet people who are aligned
✨ A strategy that feels empowering, not forced
✨ Mindset help that builds confidence from the inside out
✨ A place to ask questions without feeling silly or needy
✨ And a real community of people who genuinely want a relationship, just like you
You need guidance, strategy, support, and clarity - all in one place….until you feel empowered and confident, and/or attract your ideal person.
As I shared above, after years of frustrating relationships, exhausting matches, and near-misses, I finally found my person 😍 - and it wasn’t luck.
It was because I got clear, I got intentional, and I started dating in a way that actually felt good to me.
I don’t want it to take you 17 years to get there like it did for me.
And this is why I've created the Find Your Match Club. 😊
💖 So, what is the Find Your Match Club?
Well, it's your warm, supportive space where I help you learn exactly how to find, attract, and keep your aligned partner.
This is not a course full of theory.
Not a community where you get lost.
Not another place full of generic dating advice.
This is practical, step-by-step, weekly guidance from someone who has actually been through it - and now teaches the exact shifts that help singles date intentionally and confidently.
Inside the club, I'm your dating guide - giving you the tools, direction, mindset support, and weekly action steps to help you attract a relationship that feels aligned, mutual, respectful, and real.
And it all happens inside a repeating 4-week structure designed to give you results and clarity quickly.
AND…you also get a spot inside my matchmaking pool, so that you are eligible to be matched by someone who is potentially aligned...another opportunity for you to meet someone right for you (more details below).
🌟 Your Monthly Rotation Inside the Club 🌟
These are examples of what you’ll get inside the club each week on rotation:
Week 1: Mini Course / Challenge
A practical, step-by-step training you can apply immediately.
Think:
✔ “How to get a date in 5 days”
✔ “How to get clear on what you actually want”
✔ “How to shift your dating patterns fast”
✔ “How to become more magnetic to your ideal match”
These are actionable, momentum-building, and created to help you get results quickly.
Week 2: Dating Tool or Guide
A practical resource that makes dating clearer and easier, such as:
➡ Red flags & Green flags checklist
➡ Compatibility guide
➡ Conversation starter prompts
➡ Framework for evaluating new connections
You’ll always know what to look for, what to avoid, and how to make aligned choices.
Week 3: Mindset or Practical Training
Because dating success is:
50% strategy
50% mindset, emotional skills, and self-leadership
Expect topics like:
✔ How to trust yourself again
✔ How to stop over-giving
✔ How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people
✔ How to feel confident walking away from what isn’t aligned
✔ How to date from worthiness, not fear
Week 4: Ask Me Anything
I’ll answer (anonymously) your questions so you get personalised guidance without the pressure of being in the spotlight.
These sessions help you see your blind spots, understand dating dynamics, and get clarity fast.
💘 How the Matchmaking Pool Works 💘
Once you join the Club, you’ll be eligible to join the Matchmaking Pool for introductions to people who may compatible with you.
Here’s what that looks like:
✔️ You fill in a short, intentional matchmaking form
✔️ Your profile is reviewed for alignment with others
✔️ If I see a potential match, I reach out to both of you
✔️ You receive a values & compatibility overview - before photos
✔️ If you both say yes, you’re introduced
✔️ You get support on next steps if you want it
(Please note: matches aren't guaranteed - it will depend on who is in the Pool when you join, or who joins after, and if you're aligned 'on paper')
This approach helps you connect with people based on what truly matters first - substance over swiping.
And throughout all of this, you’ll also be part of a community of genuine singles who are on the same intentional dating journey as you.
This isn’t just about dating.
It’s about becoming the version of you who attracts - and keeps - the partner you truly want.
👀 Who’s this for?
This is for you if:
✅ You’re ready for love - but dating feels stuck, repetitive or draining
✅ You want to feel more in control of how you date, who you choose, and how you’re showing up
✅ You know your worth, but something keeps tripping you up (a pattern, a fear, a type…you're just not sure what) (and if you're struggling with worthiness, I do address this too, so it's still a great place for you 🙂)
✅ You’d love dating to feel more like a vibe - not a test or a time suck
✅ You want to feel proud of how you’re showing up and attract a relationship that actually fits the life you want to build
✅ You’d love guidance with navigating apps, or meeting people in person
✅ You like the idea of conscious, values-led dating
✅ You want clarity and guidance from someone who gets it
✅ You're committed to meeting someone aligned this year
✅ You want community and motivation, not isolation and confusion
✅ You’re excited to be in a space where everyone is dating with intention
🔥 What makes this Club different from other dating support?
✨ This is not a dating app.
There’s no swiping.
No profiles-for-entertainment.
No ghosting madness.
You get intentional guidance, real tools, real conversations, and a real human (me!) behind the matchmaking.
✨ Connection is based on alignment, not just looks
Shared values.
Compatible intentions.
Emotional readiness. Lifestyle alignment.
And - eventually - attraction grows from that foundation.
✨ You get weekly teaching, not endless support threads
You won’t just “talk about dating.” You’ll learn how to date well.
✨ You won’t be alone
You’ll have community.
You’ll have support.
You’ll have structure.
You’ll have momentum.
Within the first few weeks, you’ll notice:
🤍 You’re making better dating decisions
🤍 You feel clearer and more confident
🤍 You’re not wasting time on people who aren’t aligned
🤍 Dating feels lighter, calmer, more intentional
🤍 You know what to look for and what to avoid
🤍 You’re showing up with healthier boundaries
🤍 You’re not overthinking everything
🤍 You feel more hopeful - and more empowered
🎯 MEMBERSHIP OPTIONS
💜 Tier 1: The Find Your Match Club STANDARD - £10 per month
Everything you need to date smarter, easier, and more intentionally.
You’ll get:
💌 Weekly Dating Lessons (rotating format)
*Mini-course (starting with 💘 ‘Get a Date in 5 Days’ mini-course - get unstuck fast and start seeing interest from people you actually like)
*Guide/tool
*Training (mindset/emotional skills/perspective shift/pattern-breaking)
*Ask-me-anything Q&A
💌 Access to the Community Chat (as long as you're subscribed and are in the Pool)
💌 Monthly Ask-Me-Anything Q&As
💌 Virtual Mixers included (non-members pay £10 per mixer)
💌 Entry into the Matchmaking Pool
*Full matchmaking profile
*Eligible to be matched
*Behind-the-scenes support in determining alignment
Think of this as your weekly dating brain, heart-reset, and confidence-booster.
For singles who want smart, low-pressure support to get practical steps for meeting their person in under 20 minutes a week.
There are also optional upgrades if you want a bit more personal support:
🔥 Tier 2: Find Your Match Club PLUS (Weekly Q&A Support) - £30 per month
Everything in Tier 1, plus…
💌 Weekly Group Q&A Session
Every week, you can submit your questions and get personal insights from me inside our group Q&A and community space.
I’ll answer as many as I can in the hour so you walk away with clarity, direction, and that “okay… I know exactly what to do now” feeling.
Why this helps:
*No more spiralling alone wondering what a message means or whether you should continue something.
*You get real guidance in real dating situations, so you don’t lose momentum or accidentally talk yourself out of something good.
*Hearing other people’s questions means you learn from situations you’re not even in yet (and it saves you months of trial and error).
💌 Pop-Up Hot Seat Coaching Calls
Whenever I feel called, I’ll hold live coaching sessions inside the community space - you can raise your hand, share what’s going on, and I’ll coach you in real time.
Why this helps:
*You get personalised support without needing to book or schedule calls.
*You get clarity right there in the moment, instead of stewing on something for days.
*You learn how to shift patterns, beliefs, and habits faster because we’re talking it through live together.
This tier is perfect for you if you want:
➡️ More support
➡️ More clarity
➡️ More “oooohhh, NOW I get it” moments
➡️ Less overthinking, less doubting, and fewer dead-end dating loops
For singles who are so done with doing this alone and want weekly expert input and answers.
💎 Tier 3: Find Your Match Club VIP (Weekly Personal Q&A) - £50 per month
Everything in Tier 1 & 2, plus…
💌 Weekly Guaranteed Personal Response (Private)
This is your private space to ask me anything - every week, you can message me directly with your questions, screenshots, situations, worries, or wins… and you’ll always get a personal response from me.
Why this helps:
*No waiting for your question to be picked in a group setting - your question always gets answered.
*You get tailored guidance that fits your exact situation, personality, patterns, and relationship goals.
*It gives you the confidence to make decisions that feel aligned instead of rushed, pressured, or fear-based.
💌 Option to Send Your Dating App Profile or Messages for Review
If you want feedback on your bio, your photos, your prompts, or even a message you’re unsure how to respond to, you can send it in.
Why this helps:
*You immediately upgrade the quality of people you attract
*You stop sabotaging great conversations by saying the wrong thing (or overthinking the right thing)
*Your profile becomes aligned with who you actually are, which makes dating feel effortless rather than performative
💌 One Follow-Up Question Each Week
Got a bit of extra context? Need clarity on my answer? Want to double-check something before you act? You get one follow-up question a week to keep you grounded and supported.
Why this helps:
*No more “But what about THIS?” anxiety spirals
*You get ongoing support through the same situation so you don’t fall back into old patterns
*The progress compounds - quickly
This tier is perfect for you if you want:
➡️ Close proximity, without the 1:1 coaching price
➡️ Weekly personalised guidance that moves you forward quickly
➡️ Support that meets you exactly where you are
For high-level singles who want my personal eyes on their love life and fast-track results.
You can upgrade, downgrade and cancel at any time (you're not tied into a contract)
😍 WHY THIS WORKS EVEN IF…
“Even if I’ve messed things up before.”
Perfect, you’ve already got 'data' to work with. We’ll use it.
“Even if I don’t trust myself to choose the right people.”
That’s literally what we fix here - so you can trust yourself again.
“Even if I don’t have hours to spend.”
Great. You won’t need them. This is designed to fit into a full, normal life. Everything is doable and in small steps.
“Even if I’ve tried stuff before that didn’t help.”
This isn’t fluff or one-size-fits-all advice.
It’s real insight, matched with real actions, tailored to your journey.
And it leads to more than better matches - it leads to the aligned love you actually want.
“Even if I’m scared I’ll repeat old patterns.”
You won’t - because we intercept them before they run the show.
“Even if apps feel exhausting.”
This is where dating becomes lighter, more aligned, and more strategic.
You'll get support with apps, and also have an opportunity to meet someone in a different way (matchmaking, plus guidance on meeting people in person).
“Even if I’m starting to lose hope.”
Don’t. You’re closer than you think - you just need a clear process.
“Even if I’ve been single for years.”
Years don’t matter - patterns do. And patterns can change quickly.
“Even if I don’t know where to meet someone.”
We cover that. A lot. And you’ll get step-by-step actions.
💭 Imagine this...
💖 You go on a date already knowing what you’re looking for - not hoping you’ll “just feel it.”
💖 You're on a date feeling grounded, not nervous because you already know what matters and what doesn’t.
💖 You stop wondering “Do they like me?”
Instead, you’re asking, “Do I like them?”
💖 You’re swiping on the apps with confidence -
because you can spot potential and spot a mismatch instantly.
💖 You stop entertaining situationships.
You walk away early.
And you feel proud of yourself.
💖 You stop wasting time on people who aren’t aligned - and it feels easy to say no.
💖 Your confidence grows, because you finally understand your patterns and how to change them.
💖 Your matches improve because your clarity improves.
💖 You’re no longer asking your group chat, or bestie, what to text because you already know your next step.
💖 You stop overthinking every little thing (yes, really).
💖 Dating feels hopeful again, without forcing fake positivity.
💖 You’re meeting people who feel different… better… more aligned.
💖 And when you do meet someone amazing, you know exactly how to build something healthy, steady, and real.
All of this isn’t far away.
It's what happens when you date intentionally - with guidance.
✨ Why join now?
Because you're done trying to figure this out on your own, and second-guessing yourself...it's time to get some clarity about how to find your ideal match...
...and clarity doesn’t come from more swiping…
Or more waiting…
Or more hoping the next person is magically “the one.”
Clarity comes from guidance.
And once you have clarity?
💖 You date differently
💖 You feel differently
💖 You choose differently
💖 You attract differently
💖 And you build relationships differently
Most people stay stuck because they keep doing the same thing, expecting a different result.
You’re here because you’re ready for a different result - and a better way forward.
The Find Your Match Club gives you everything you need to date intentionally, confidently, and with the direction most singles never get.
Your future relationship becomes easier the moment you decide dating doesn’t have to feel so hard.
Nothing changes until you change how you date.
Ready to find your match?
💜 Tier 1 - STANDARD: £10 per/month
Quick wins, smart shifts, zero overwhelm.
🔥 Tier 2 - PLUS: £30 per/month
Upgrade for weekly q&a support
💎 Tier 3 - VIP: £50 per/month
Upgrade for guaranteed personal guidance
💌 What Happens After You Join
💜 Find Your Match STANDARD (Tier 1)
Once you sign up, you’ll get an email with:
✔️ A link to join the private Telegram channel where you'll get the lessons, guides, training and where I'll answer the monthly Q&A
✔️ A link to complete the Matchmaking Pool intake form
✔️ Access to weekly audios and prompts, dropped straight into the channel
🔥 Find Your Match PLUS (Tier 2)
After payment, you’ll receive:
✔️ Everything from Tier 1
✔️ A second link to access your private community space for the weekly Q&A
💎 Find Your Match VIP (Tier 3)
After joining, you’ll get all of the above, plus:
✔️ A Google Form to send me your question for personal feedback
✔️ A private 1:1 messaging thread set up with me inside Telegram
About your Dating Coach...
Hi! I'm Topé (pronounced Top-Air)
After my divorce nearly 20 years ago, I spent years in dead-end relationships, settling for situationships, feeling heartbroken, and wondering why men wouldn’t commit.
Once I finally uncovered why I kept attracting the wrong men - and made the shifts I now teach other women and men - my entire love life changed.
✨ I stopped wasting time on people who weren’t aligned.
✨ I became confident in what I wanted and deserved.
✨ I met my incredible partner (online!) - and it’s the healthiest, happiest relationship I’ve ever had.
It took me 17 years to figure it out - but it doesn’t have to take you that long.
This Club takes the guesswork out of dating, helping you create real opportunities to meet someone aligned with your values and move things forward with clarity and ease. 💞
What happens when you date intentionally...
Final Thoughts
Finding your person doesn’t have to be complicated, slow, or draining.
With the right tools, the right community, and the right support, you can date with ease and meet aligned people sooner than you think.
Join us inside the Find Your Match Club, and let’s make your dating life simpler, more aligned, and way more enjoyable.
Start getting closer to your dream partner today. 😍
Find Your Match Membership Options
TIER 1 - STANDARD (£10/month)
You get:
✔️Weekly dating actions so you know exactly what to do to find your ideal match
✔️Monthly guided training (4-week rotation of practical steps, tools & mindset support)
✔️Monthly dating tool or guide (e.g., red flags checklist, compatibility tool, scripts, etc.)
✔️Monthly theme-based Q&As: Submit your dating questions and I'll answer based around the common themes that come up in the questions
✔️Access to the community matchmaking chat (for genuine singles only)
✔️Entry into the matchmaking pool (potential match introductions)
✔️Attend all Virtual Mixers without a ticket
✔️Cancel anytime
Best for:
Singles who want steady guidance, clarity and direction without needing personalised support.
TIER 2 - WEEKLY GROUP Q&A (£30/month)
You get:
✔️Weekly dating actions so you know exactly what to do to find your ideal match
✔️Weekly guided training (4-week rotation of practical steps, tools & mindset support)
✔️Monthly dating tool or guide (e.g., red flags checklist, compatibility tool, scripts, etc.)
✔️Access to the community matchmaking chat (for genuine singles only)
✔️Entry into the matchmaking pool (potential match introductions)
✔️Attend all Virtual Mixers without a ticket
✔️Cancel anytime
✔️Weekly Group Q&A: Submit your dating questions each week and get personalised guidance in the group
✔️Real-Time Pop-Up Hot Seat Coaching: Occasional live sessions inside the Q&A community for deeper support
✔️Priority for question selection (I answer Tier 2 before Tier 1 submissions if both come through)
Best for:
Singles who want direct support, clarity on specific situations, and help applying the tools week by week.
TIER 3 - WEEKLY PERSONAL Q&A (£50/month)
You get:
✔️Weekly dating actions so you know exactly what to do to find your ideal match
✔️Weekly guided training (4-week rotation of practical steps, tools & mindset support)
✔️Monthly dating tool or guide (e.g., red flags checklist, compatibility tool, scripts, etc.)
✔️Access to the community matchmaking chat (for genuine singles only)
✔️Entry into the matchmaking pool (potential match introductions)
✔️Attend all Virtual Mixers without a ticket
✔️Cancel anytime
✔️Weekly Group Q&A: Listen in to the submitted dating questions each week
✔️Real-Time Pop-Up Hot Seat Coaching: Occasional live sessions inside the Q&A community for deeper support
✔️Guaranteed Weekly Personal Response: Send me your questions privately and get a tailored answer every week
✔️Private follow-up allowed: If you need clarity on my response, you can ask one follow-up
✔️Profile/Message Review Option: You can use your weekly question slot to send screenshots (messages, profiles, bios, etc.) for personalised feedback
Best for:
Singles who want close proximity, direct support, and personalised guidance tailored to their specific dating life.
You can upgrade, downgrade and cancel at any time (you're not tied into a contract)
If you don’t want the weekly club support but you'd like to join the matchmaking pool only, you can do that separately.
(You won’t get the dating tools.)
👉 Click here to join the matchmaking pool
Got a question? Drop me an email: coachtope@ment4u.com
