Hi, I'm Topé (pronounced Top-Air) ...
...a certified dating coach, and the creator of the Dream Partner Formula™, which helps smart, self-aware singles attract, find and choose the right partner - without second-guessing yourself, wasting time on dead-end dates, or settling for situationships.
After getting divorced nearly 20 years ago, I spent way too long in relationships that didn’t go anywhere - hoping men would commit, doubting myself, and wondering what I was doing wrong.
Once I finally uncovered the real reason I kept attracting the wrong men (and made the shifts I now teach), everything changed.
✨ I stopped chasing chemistry and started choosing compatibility
✨ I built confidence and clarity around what I truly wanted
✨ And I met my incredible partner online (yep, online!) - and it’s the best relationship of my life
It took me 17 years to figure it out.
It doesn’t need to take you that long.
I'm here to help you connect with your aligned person, in a way that is intentional, and actually enjoyable. 💞